Discovering Subtle Underlying Issues
Many years ago while I was married I used to have a re-occurring nightmare. It was always about my husband flaunting other women in front of me. I knew this was really not about my dear husband because he was a very faithful and loyal partner, but it baffled me as I continued having these nasty dreams. Finally one day I proclaimed that I wanted to know what the dreams were about and who that person really was. That night I had another bad dream, and this time the guy turned around. I was amazed to see that the deceiving perpetrator was actually a man I had dated in graduate school who really did deceive me. I had forgotten about how devastated I was so many years before, and now it had come back up to be healed.
Years later I was divorced and went through a very difficult time in my life where I missed my old life and also suffered from a failed love affair. I used many energy tools on myself, worked with coaches and a therapist to get me through the pain I was feeling in this “dark night of the soul”. After awhile I felt better and believed that I had cleared all of the old residue around my trauma. I moved forward with creating a new, happier life. I attracted a wonderful and loving partner.
Recently I’ve been doing lots of energy tapping as I facilitate EFT TAPshops and other one-on-one sessions with my clients. I enjoy this because as I help others to clear their issues I am actually getting benefits myself.
It amazed me recently when an aspect of the old hurt of abandonment and loss came up to be cleared. When this happened I went back to the more recent major event to see if it was the source of the emotion I was feeling. That was clear, but to my surprise the original old issue from graduate school showed up. And, at this point I realized that in all of my clearing during the “dark night of my soul” I had neglected to go back and clear the earlier trauma from the man who had deceived me earlier. At this point I went back through my life and thought of all occurrences where I had felt abandoned, deceived, led on, cheated on, etc.
I’m still surprised that I had totally forgotten the most traumatic event of my earlier life when the later trauma occurred. And now I understand that once a certain vibration is in one’s frequency field it can stay there and attract more of that, ending in increased trauma each time until the issue is cleared. Now I specifically search for the very subtle and under-lying issues that – even though they may not seem related – sometimes hide and cause major blockages in moving forward in everyday life.
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