Living Life on Your Terms
Are you living a life without passion? Are you living a life controlled by others? Would you like to be guided by the stories of others who have re-created their lives to live on their own terms? If so, then the new book Life on Your Terms is something you should definitely consider.
This book is in pre-order this month, and you can receive bonuses for buying before July 31st.
Did I mention that I am one of the featured 40 solo-preneurs interviewed in the new book? You can learn more about my story and how I re-created my life. Here is what the publicity is saying:
“From chucking it all and backpacking around the world, to not being afraid to die; from never tasting a meal in the same way, to conquering cycles of mental illness; from starting over, to base jumping off the top rung of the corporate ladder into the realm of personal freedom…These are just a few of the stories from the exceptional group of entrepreneurs and visionaries who generously share their secrets for personal liberation in this book.
Life On Your Terms means learning to be your best self, giving back to your community, allowing for divine love, and following your dreams toward your personal and entrepreneurial destiny.
This collection of more than forty personal interviews turns over the stones of accepted wisdom to reveal the tremendous power of the entrepreneurial perspective. With commentary and insights by Shann Vander Leek—an inspirational leader who, after eighteen years of serving the television broadcast model of Corporate America, reinvented herself as the founder of True Balance Life Coaching—Life On Your Terms is a valuable resource for any entrepreneur, and reminds us that the power to define success and personal freedom lies within ourselves.”
So, if you are ready for personal transformation, for inspiration, for re-kindling your passion, for re-discovering your authentic self, and for living life on your terms, then you may pre-purchase your book by going here.
Walking My Talk!
Just as I have expectations that my clients will take care of themselves between our sessions using the tools with which I have taught them to support themselves, it is of paramount importance that I also take care of myself using specific energy psychology tools too.
As I begin each session I guide my client to become centered, connect our energies, set the intention of creating an energetic mastermind, and set my own intention to be “the clearest channel that I can be to support the highest priority issues” of my client, and to “follow guidance to utilize the most appropriate tools to best support the clearing of priority issues – for the highest good of all concerned”.
There is no way that I can serve as a “clear channel” unless I clear my own issues whenever they arise and continue to hone my energy psychology tools so that I can be the best me possible when I serve my clients.
Return to Your Authentic Self!
Each evening I am blessed with a gorgeous sunset from my cabin on a mountain ridge in north Georgia. I look toward the west and can see the sun set behind the Cohutta Wilderness every night. My blog banner is a photo of such a sunset… with a few color shifts to keep my green branding.
Here is a real photo with true colors. It is authentic and I love the natural beauty. As humans we are born with an authentic beauty that is often stressed out of us by life. After events start happening and patterns start to develop, then our authenticity begins to disappear behind a mask of protection. The subconscious, limbic mind goes into protection mode to shield us from hurt, and our colors begin to fade or change. Soon the weaknesses and old hurts that we have inherited in our DNA start to appear and attract cycles of negative occurrences into our lives. Before long we are hunting for someone to help clear the pain.
That is where energy psychology tools come in. You can only do so much with your conscious mind and will. If your life isn’t as you would like it to be, then there is something inside providing self-sabotage. The good news is that there are meridian based energy therapy tools now available that you can learn to use to clear out the underlying causes of all negative cycles, self-sabotage, and debilitating beliefs. Yes, there IS hope!
So, if you desire to return to your authentic, clear, wonderful self, aligned with all of the opportunities of the Universe, then you may be a candidate for using energy psychology tools like Neuro Emotional Technique or Emotional Freedoom Technique or many others. My own version of NET + EFT is called N- EFT/ Neuro- Emotional Freedom Technique, and it is very potent. I love the authentic selves who reappear after just a few clearing sessions!
So, I urge you to search for that wonderful, authentic self who is hiding somewhere inside of you. And, if you need assistance in helping it to reappear, then feel free to contact me!
Doing the Work… Creating Miracles!
I am so grateful to have manifested wonderful clients who are willing to create the miracles in their lives!
As an energy psychologist and successful life coach I am a guide and facilitator. I share meridian based energy therapy tools including N- EFT, and wave my magic wand so that the alchemical process may begin. I hold my clients in a sacred chalice energetically and check in with them regularly. They must do the daily work, and they do!
One client was in a state of trauma when she came to me for a single session. In just that one session we cleared co-dependence, fear of being out of control, deep insecurities, and the causes of her bulimia of years before. She has created a positive daily habit of conscious meridian tapping with EFT since our session and sends me weekly reports on her progress. She is making remarkable leaps forward in her life and getting to be a skilled EFT tapper!
Another client came to me for just six sessions to clear money issues, several serious physical complaints, and his seeming lack of positive movement in his life. After we cleared several layers of childhood abuse the contracts started rolling in and one physical issue cleared up. After several more sessions he had set up vision boards around his office, daily tapping protocols, and was re-listening to the tapping tapes from our sessions. He definitely was doing the work, and at the end of three months another major physical ailment cleared up to the point where the pain is controllable and sometimes gone completely, which many practitioners said would never happen. He definitely has done the work to create the miracles in his life, and he continues to do this daily!
Another client was so weak with auto-immune toxicity when we first met that she was barely able to walk from her bed to her kitchen in her little apartment. In three months she now is out facilitating meetings, walking in the park, driving to destinations hours away, attending festive gatherings, and being less susceptible to toxins in the environment. She is re-claiming her body after a toxic event thirteen years ago, and reclaiming her life for the first time in 60+ years. We cleared many levels of abuse and self-criticism before she could allow herself to start to re-claim her health. She is doing her work and will soon be living a totally different life from anything she might have ever imagined!
I love these people and their strong intention and drive to get better! Sometimes the inner work is almost harder than the outer work, however with the meridian based energy therapy tools that I use and teach to my clients the pain is merely an energetic charge that is easily cleared, and the N- EFT tools can be used for the rest of their lives. This work is so fulfilling! I love seeing my clients’ successes and sharing in the joy of their new lives!
Hooray for conscious transformation!
Are You Utilizing Your Own Wealth?
What would happen if you had a billion dollars and yet you forgot that you had it in your account and never used it? You constantly felt poor, in survival mode, a victim of circumstances, and projected neediness and lack all around you.
This is a good analogy for a person who knows how to use energy therapy/psychology tapping tools and yet never uses them.
When an ache or pain comes up, do you tap? Even if it doesn’t work, do you at least try?
When you feel any uncomfortable emotion, do you tap? In this case tapping might be the most powerful thing that you can do!
And, do you let your newness at tapping or insecurities about what to say hold you back from even trying? If so, then tap on that insecurity in yourself. It doesn’t really matter what you say… just talk to your subconscious mind and tell it what you choose to let go of and what you would like to feel in its place. While you are tapping allow yourself to be in the FEELing of the emotion. The rest just happens as you tap.
So, if you are not utilizing your tapping every time you feel uncomfortable in any area of your life, then you are sitting on a billion dollars in your bank account… and you are still feeling poor.
If this is you and you need help, then seek it! I am available and so are so many other expert tappers, facilitators, and teachers of tapping.
From now on in my blog and soon to appear on my website you will hear about my own personalized technique which I call NEFT: Neuro Emotional Freedom Technique – taken from my two primary modalities: NET/Neuro Emotional Technique and EFT/ Emotional Freedom Technique. My approach incorporates classic EFT and adds more specificity per tapping point via NET. In one round I usually can clear what it usually takes several rounds of traditional EFT or NET to clear. That is why I have a high success rate with my clients and they shift so quickly. Stay tuned to learn more…
Your Soul is Calling – Will You Answer?
Once there was a woman who found herself in the Dark Night of the Soul. She had felt for years that she needed to make some conscious changes in her life, but had put that off out of loyalty to her marriage and lack of courage. When change finally crept up on her, everything in her life changed dramatically and the losses that she encountered created a major traumatic stress. She and her best friend husband divorced, she moved from her dream home, left a lucrative business as well as her extended personal network to move to a city where she knew nobody, took a less exciting job that was soon-after dissolved by budget cuts, and found herself living without income, totally alone, and dependent on her parents for the first time in her adult life because the two-year sale of her big home had eaten up her savings. She was totally alone and feeling desolate. She faced the question to end it all or to re-create her life. She became familiar with the deep pit of despair and struggled to climb out of it.
She reached out by telephone to internet groups for support. She hired a coach who was willing to be paid when she finally got out of debt with the sale of her house. She incorporated the daily practices of kundalini yoga, pilates, meditation, and EFT into her life as she slowly started letting go of the intense inner emotional pain and trauma. It took awhile to clear out some layers before she could start to see light again. Hope returned slowly. Layer after layer of her own inner emotional baggage was dissolved with energy tools. She was diligent and knew that her goal was to become as clear a channel as possible so that when she was “well” again she could help others so that they would not need to suffer as she had done.
Today this person is me. In a nutshell, that was my journey. I survived. I suffered dramatically, in ways that I would never wish on anybody. And now I personally believe that nobody has to suffer. There are energy tools available to help you painlessly make shifts in your life rather than find yourself beaten down completely and in pain. And, if you are already in that terrible pit of despair, there are easy-to-use tools to help you quickly climb out. And, there are those of us who have walked a similar path who can give you a hand when you need support so that you do not need to lose years of your life with your struggle.
Give yourself the gift of life today. You deserve it! If you feel that inner nudging to make changes, do it now before it does it to you! Change can be easy using the right tools. Denial will cost you in the end! I know this from experience!
Pick yourself a practitioner to help you. If you resonate with me, then I would love to talk with you about how you can make your deepest dreams come true, and how you can create the changes that your soul yearns to make. You may check out my website at http://arielagroup.com or contact me at info@arielagroup.com and ask about my birthday week coaching specials.
Your life and your soul deserve your attention – now!
Why Are You Reluctant to Use Energy Therapy?
Why are some people reluctant to utilize energy therapy and its wonderful transformational tools? Do you fall into this category?
There is often internal subconscious resistance in a person which places self growth, healing, happiness, abundance as a last priority because the subconscious mind may have been trained, conditioned, or abused into feeling that it is:
- Unworthy of improving in health, well-being, finances, etc.,
- Bad or nasty, and so is undeserving of positive life options,
- Deeply afraid of change – even for the better,
- Fearful of the unknown of what it will be like if and when a situation shifts,
- Reluctant to be the person that has different dynamics in his or her life.
This is so subtle, and is usually hidden below many layers of more surface issues and symptoms that must be cleared first. The beauty of energy therapy is that it is relatively painless and very quick in how it clears energy. It is unlike some traditional therapy processes that require a person to revisit the trauma of a past memory.
Often clients just don’t understand this. When the subconscious is ready to let go of a particular issue it can be cleared in a matter of minutes. And, if there are deeper issues to clear, then the facilitator can go deeper in order to support a clearing of resistance to occur and the subsequent reaching of the goal to happen.
So, if you haven’t yet tried any of the wonderful energy therapy tools, including some of my favorites: NET, AK, EFT, TAT, and other meridian tapping techniques, then find a practitioner at http://www.MTTProNetwork.com and get started toward feeling better in all aspects of your life!
Mandala Painting is Transformational!
This week I am in Laguna Beach, California, painting mandalas with my dear friend and teacher, Paul Heussenstamm. I’ve been painting mandalas with him for over twelve years, and each time the process takes me deeper!
I’m so excited and filled with energy that aleady this morning I’ve designed a new mandala, written three blog posts, and sent an ezine to my subscribers. And it is only 7:45 a.m.! We get back into the studio work at 10:00, where I am starting a series of mandala paintings depicting
- The Conscious Self
- Conscious Life Transformation
- Dark Night of the Soul
- Spirit in Business
During this week-long workshop I am also being trained to be a better facilitator in the transformational process of mandala creation. So, I’ll be able to focus more energy on offering transformation through art workshops with my wonderful clients, and you can come to my Mt. View Retreat in north Georgia to enjoy the mandala process and the wonderful energy and mountain views!
Paul’s paintings have been purchased by people worldwide and you might have seen one of them featured in a movie, hanging at one of the Chopra Centers, or at Michael Beckwith’s Agape chapel. For more information on mandalas, their creation, or a master of the trade, go to: http://www.mandalas.com .
I love Energy Psychology Tools!
I love energy psychology and the powerful tools that support the work of
- understanding energy,
- how it works within to keep the body health,
- how when it gets stuck the many ways it causes individuals to suffer, and
- how to untangle energy and clear blockages caused by emotional trauma to the energy system in order to restore peace of mind and physical vitality to the individual.
The energy psychology tools that I use, NET, AK, EFT, are so potent and, when following the body’s priority, the easy protocol of each clears the issues in a way so that success around any goal may be reached.
In going about clearing blocks and attaining goals using energy therapy modalities there is balance, it is easier than using sheer will and getting frustrated over and over when failures occur, and once resistance is cleared it is gone for good and similar future goals will be easy to attain. The beauty of using energy tools and meridian tapping techniques including EFT is that:
- They cause no harm and have no negative side effects,
- Every session is beneficial in some way,
- They are easy to learn and to use,
- They clear the emotional charge around painful issues without inflicting pain,
- They not only serve to clear blockages and emotional charge held in the subconscious, meridians, electromagnetic field, limbic brain, organs, cells, and elsewhere, but can also serve to input new and improved data and emotions into the mind computer to fill the vacuum created,
- And, they are simple, subtle, and profound.
Why wouldn’t anybody seek out such tools and use them?
For more information about EFT you may view videos, read articles, and download Gary Craig’s basic EFT training manual at http://www.emofree.com .
How I Cured Chronic Fatigue & Fibromyalgia
My previous blog article claims “Chronic Fatigue is Curable!”, and I received several comments asking how I did this in my own case and what I do when I work with others. So, firstly, I’d like to share how I cured my own condition.
There were several factors that led to the symptoms of chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia in my body. I avoid claiming them as “mine”, because they showed up, stayed for a year, bothered me 24/7, and then I cleared them out! These were symptoms, diagnosed – yes, however, just symptoms that led to a condition that others had entitled as chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia.
I tend to approach life in a wholistic and energetic way, and when I suffered from those terrible symptoms I had not yet learned of NET/ Neuro Emotional Technique or EFT/ Emotional Freedom Technique. I might have cleared out the symptoms much sooner had I been able to apply NET and EFT at the time.
I first identified that I was acting and feeling very much like a victim, and that, in itself was very disempowering. Louise Hay says in her writings that often the basis for chronic fatigue and other auto-immune disorders is an inner conflict between dependence and independence. I looked at my own life and found that struggle as a very strong issue that I had internalized. This inner struggle made me sick – literally, and had wasted a year of my life. I wanted my personal power back! And, it was time, once and for all, to totally let go of victimhood. I let that go from my being… for good!
Next I took that re-claimed personal power and had a strong chat with my Maker. I basically explained that I had wasted a year, learned some very strong lessons, and it was time for me to learn how to cure myself – fast, or I was leaving! This was easy to say since I felt like I was dying every day… either of the fatigue or the constant pain. This time I really meant it, and claimed my conviction. I set an intention to learn the steps I needed to take to make myself well again.
Within two days I was synchronistically led to some documents that told me everything I needed to know. I realized that I had several things going on physically, and this was all tested and proven to be true when I went to my physician of choice. I sought out a special practitioner of applied kinesiology who also worked with homeopathics. He tested my body and identified the best protocol to use, the dosages of homeopathics, and since he was also a chiropractor, he could align my body as it began to be cleared of the toxins.
I started on a dietary regimen of my own choice that would support the work being done by my physician. I took a supplement, a homeopathic remedy, and an herb to help eliminate the condition based on our findings. With the support of gentle acupressure treatments from my AK chiropractor I started eliminating the pain.
Little-by-little my energy started to return, and almost immediately the pain subsided. I noticed that a side benefit of the treatment was that I was losing weight. In two months I was a new person, and twenty pounds lighter! My body was re-balanced and felt better than it had felt in several years.
In my own research I found many possible causes to the symptoms that I suffered. I narrowed down the search and then turned to a holistic healing expert who used tested approaches as well as some energy modalities to support my healing process. I supported his work with my own regimen. The results were that I got my life back.
Soon after my own metamorphosis I met a nurse who had quit her job and was suffering from chronic fatigue and painful fibromyalgia. I started coaching her to look at aspects of her life. We walked through a number of possible causes until we found the root cause of her suffering. I guided her to the appropriate physician who could support her healing. Within a month she was feeling much better and a little later she was back at work and living a normal life again as well.
I’ve talked with many sufferers of the same symptoms that I had. Often people resist letting go of their conditions, and some hold on to victimhood in their lives just because of fear of the unknown. I enjoy coaching and supporting people who are ready and willing to look inside and start the process of healing- whatever it takes! I use energy clearing modalities with my clients including NET, EFT, AK, Reiki, so that they can let go of the inner resistance that often stands in the way of moving forward with the healing process. I work closely with and refer to other holistic practitioners for the parts they can play in the process. When the patient is ready, healing can and will occur!
For more information feel free to contact me at: info@arielagroup.com or via my website at: http://arielagroup.com .