Clearing “Life After Death” Trauma with N- EFT
This weekend on NPR Radio I was reminded of several client cases I’ve worked with over the years that dealt with clearing deep trauma that resulted from being involved in the death of another.
The NPR program This American Life shared several stories related to this topic in their show “Life After Death”, and as I listened to the sad stories of trauma, pain, guilt, panic, terror, etc. I thought of how sad it is that the people interviewed for the show did not know about the meridian tapping modalities such as EFT that could effectively change their lives for the better. [ You may learn more about this NPR program by going here .]
While listening I was reminded of cases such as the following where my facilitation of N- EFT has helped people to clear their trauma and reclaim their lives:
- Vietnam vet who felt remorse about multiple killings he’d performed in his duty,
- Security professional sent to Iraq during early war suffering PTSD and extremely agitated behavior with others upon return,
- Woman who shot and accidentally killed her husband in self defense,
- Women who have chosen abortion and later felt guilt or remorse,
- Physician who lost a patient and felt deep guilt and disempowerment as a result,
- Young woman who accidently hit and killed a child riding a bicycle in her neighborhood,
- Among other cases…
Especially in our western culture, death is traumatic, and this is extremely true in cases where a person causes or is perceived to cause the death. The inner criticism and outer judgement, plus aftershock emotions and behaviors can break a person, as well as his or her family.
It is my personal belief that NOBODY needs to suffer, and in the case of a death already, why not provide a means for all of those remaining to let go of their pain so that they can truly continue to live while they have the chance.
It is in extreme cases such as these that I appreciate using N- EFT/ Neuro- Emotional Freedom Technique even more! The results are often miraculous!
Physical Clearing Protocol Using N-hanced EFT
Whenever a client presents to me with a physical ailment I usually follow a certain protocol as I support the person to feel better.
Using my own version of meridian based tapping, N- EFT/ Neuro- Emotional Freedom Technique, here is what I look for and clear:
1. Pain & obvious symptoms
2. Fear
3. Victimhood and lack of control
4. Emotions around the diagnosis
5. Treatment fears
6. Treatment issues & process
7. Prognosis
8. Pain & other symptoms
9. Fear of the future
10. Dark dread, fear, out of control, depression
If you would like to know which meridian tapping points relate to each step and how to best clear the aspects listed, then you might wish to sign up today for this week’s recorded Energy Therapy & N- EFT TAPShop call. During September we are focused on Clearing All Blockages to Abundant Health. During October we will focus our four calls on Clearing All Blocks to Abundant Wealth. For more information you may go to: http://arielagroup.com/tapshops .
Successful Weight Control with N- EFT Energy Therapy
When I started my first full semester at college I gained 60 pounds. I was miserable in my body and felt like a victim. During the next two years I tried every diet to lose weight and only succeeded in gaining more. Even though I rode my bicycle all over the large campus of Indiana University and exercised playing tennis and squash at least once per week, I could not lose the weight.
For many years after that I rode the weight roller coaster until I finally realized that I was not a victim of my body and that there were specific things that my body was telling me. When I discovered this, I came to a point where I could finally control my weight and enjoy living in my wonderful body!
Recently I was reminded of my own weight control journey when I was approached by an overweight client who seemed to be gaining more as she obsessed about it. She felt a sense of desperation and needed some support.
When we realize that our bodies are wonderful messengers and reflections of our inner selves we are able to solve the weight problem. I have worked with both clients who are grossly or somewhat overweight as well as those who are obsessed with being underweight, and tend toward unhealthy conditions or habits such as anorexia and bulimia. In all of these cases I have worked with my clients from the inside out.
• An anorexic client realized that she felt the only control she had over her life was in what she ate – or did not eat. When we cleared out the old emotional burden of feeling controlled and manipulated by others, she began to eat healthy and went on to build a successful health and wellness exercise clinic.
• Another somewhat overweight client admitted that she was bored with her life and ate out of frustration. When she consciously cleared old emotional patterns and de-cluttered her home and office she started to lose weight. When she looked for fun and stimulating activities to add to her regular life the weight just naturally fell away.
• A college student who found herself gaining more weight each semester at college finally realized that she was very afraid of her sexuality and felt awkward pushing guys away who made advances. On a subconscious level she felt that if she became fat she would be appreciated for who she was rather than what she looked like. She felt safer inside the wall of fat. When she cleared her hang-ups and learned what she really wanted from life and how to consciously create that, then she was able to lose the weight naturally.
• A very overweight client seemed to gain more weight the more she focused on losing it. She used meridian-based tools already, however she was tapping on the outside layers of fat rather than the issues on the inside that created it. We worked on clearing the predisposition to being fat that she inherited in her DNA, then cleared beliefs about being fat that she had learned as a child and through her life. We focused on the inner boredom that she felt in her life and the sense of being controlled that she sensed. We cleared all sense of victimhood and helped her to clarify what she really wanted in her life after the barriers were broken down to allow this. After this client reclaimed her consciousness and personal power she was able to shift her life and the weight started falling off.
• Another grossly overweight person was hiding some very scary emotional scars beneath her hundreds of pounds of fat. As she neared 500 pounds she asked for help. It seems that under the layers of fat she was hiding some buried hurt, abuse, and some residual violent behavior. She had blocked herself from re-visiting the pain and was protecting others from her violence by stuffing her feelings. Over time this became apparent in her outer life as layer upon layer of fat. This is a classic case of weight control being an inside-out job. After clearing the inside emotional charge the weight loss was a natural process.
If any of the above cases sound familiar, then maybe you are a candidate for support using meridian-based energy psychology tools. You can easily learn to use meridian tapping tools such as EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) for yourself. These tools quickly, painlessly, and permanently clear emotional issues and charge that you hold in your body’s electro-magnetic field and that support the subconscious beliefs and fears that hold you back from reaching your conscious goals and living the life you most desire. There are many of us energy therapy pros that can help you clear the biggest barriers to your success and then support you on your journey to being the best YOU that you can be!
If you would like to review the tapping points and learn more about EFT/ Emotional Freedom Technique, you may download a free introductory recording at: http://www.arielagroup.com/products/free_products.html . Here’s to your success in your perfect body!
Living with Gluten Intolerance & Food Allergies
My life would have been quite different and much less painful, if I had known of my corn and gluten sensitivities earlier in life.
Growing up I suffered all of the symptoms of rheumatoid arthritis, plus I had very bad acne during high school that definitely damaged my self esteem. I just thought this was normal until I started getting arthritis in my thumbs when I turned twenty. As a professional flautist, this was very serious. And I had developed severe back problems by then, which I based on a horse-back riding fall when in high school.
In my thirties I was checked out for food allergies by a chiropractor/ clinical kinesiologist. He immediately identified a corn allergy. A few years later I also developed a wheat & gluten intolerance.
Whenever I eat anything with corn oil my face immediately breaks out in pimples. Corn starch causes my neck to go out and I get an immediate headache. Corn syrup gives me whole-body aches & pains so severe that sometimes I can hardly walk.
Wheat and gluten products leave me with aches & pains and often a sense of mind fuzziness like a drinking hang-over.
I choose to steer clear of all of these so that I can live a pain-free active life… which is what I experience when I stay away from all corn and wheat and other gluten products. And, I also notice that the more meridian tapping and N- EFT that I do, the more often I can cheat on my non-corn/non-gluten diet without suffering.
So, whenever I work with somebody who has chronic joint or bone pain, fuzziness, plus other symptoms, I first ask if they have been tested for grain allergies. If you feel tired after a meal, then I invite you to investigate what you have eaten that causes your body to try to shut down. You should be energized after eating!
I hope my own experiences are helpful. I’ve always been an active and athletic person… and I plan to stay that way for the rest of my life!
Law of Attraction and Clearing Addictions with N- EFT
When people choose to let go of addictive patterns or behaviors they often are successful in doing this using their personal willpower. They set a conscious intention and then terminate the behavior.
This may work successfully for many, but for others it is not enough to consciously put effort into intentions when their own subconscious mind is shut down to allowing such new actions. Since Law of Attraction magnetizes and attracts more of the vibration put out via the body and mind, if that is coming from the subconscious mind and electro-magnetic field, then no positive intentions from the conscious mind will be able to over-ride the heavier energetics underlying the behavior.
In many cases where self-sabotage continues to contain and hold people back in addictions, health conditions, states of mind, one might wonder why the Law of Attraction “is not working”. Well, we know that, like gravity, LOA always works, so this is a clue to look deeper at what LOA is magnetizing. I have encountered many clients who hold inner subconscious beliefs that it is dangerous to make any changes, they will die if they revisit the pain they are covering up with their addictive behavior, they don’t deserve to have a good life without the addiction or condition, they don’t deserve to have health or wealth or love, and even many who have a subconscious belief that God doesn’t want them to change or live a good life.
Willpower alone cannot dislodge the negative emotional energy stuck in a person’s electro-magnetic field which may be holding limiting beliefs and causing addictive behavior. And, as long as heavy or negative emotional vibrations are held in the subconscious with limiting beliefs, Law of Attraction will automatically keep attracting more of the negativity and limitation rather than what the conscious mind intends and clearly asks for.
During the last twenty-five years I have utilized many energy therapy modalities, and the meridian-based modalities are the ones that seem to make the most dramatic changes to easily and painlessly clear away underlying negative attractors so that then Law of Attraction can attract what the people consciously most desire… rather than what is running in the background of their subconscious. Classical acupuncture, acupressure, and the newer meridian tapping techniques all work to clear out the hidden saboteurs from the subconscious… without any negative side effects!
I personally benefitted through using acupuncture in the 1980’s, and saw great changes in my own personality and self-esteem after just a couple of months of weekly visits to a practitioner. I have practiced Neuro Emotional Technique/ NET as a trained facilitator since 1995 with great success, and when I desired a tool I could use on myself I discovered Emotional Freedom Technique/ EFT which is becoming more accepted and popularly used by many coaches, physicians, therapists. My own practice now incorporates a blend of these latter two potent modalities which I label Neuro- Emotional Freedom Technique/ N- EFT. I currently work with clients who present with cancer, auto-immune disorders, post traumatic stress, chronic fatigue & fibromyalgia, depression, addictions, trauma, loss, dark night of the soul, financial anxiety, re-occurring negative cycles, among other things.
Although many people have wonderful success giving up an addictive habit such as smoking, drinking, drugs, other, often these addictions transfer to some other kind of addictive behavior in the life of the addict. When one “cover-up” addiction is terminated, then often there is a transfer to another addiction. This is because addicts are driven from the inside – out. Addictions cover up a sense of inner angst, anxiety, fear, clawing in the pit of the stomach. This inner agitation is what activates LOA to attract more addiction and contain a person in the same vicious life cycle without hope of escape. There is no such thing as an “addictive personality” – there is always an underlying cause, and the emotional energetic must be cleared from the energetic field around the body in order to allow an addict to be free to drop the addictive behavior and create the life he or she most desires.
I hope this information is helpful for better understanding of how the Law of Attraction does always work, and how it often might attract what is running in the background subconscious rather than what is intentionally being asked for in the conscious. Before bad habits can be changed there is often the need for clearing out the underlying causes of these patterns.
To learn more about this or to contact me you may go to: http://arielagroup.com/contact . You may also read additional blog articles to learn about energy psychology and cases using N- EFT therapies. Also, you may access a free Introduction to EFT recording at: http://www.arielagroup.com/products/free_products.html.
Life After Doubt
Today’s blog provides a perspective on a very timely topic for many people globally. I highly agree with the beliefs about the power of getting beyond inner fear and doubt as stated by the guest writer, and would like to add that moving past the realm of doubt is something that energy psychology and meridian tapping can very successfully support. Many readers may relate to Joseph’s faith-based model, whether this is faith in a Higher Power or Higher Self.
Guest writer: Joseph Ngonidzashe Zvoushoma (Zimbabwe)
Article taken from: September 2010 Global Leadership News – see below for more information.
Many of us live and hibernate in an unknown realm of doubt, a disposition that is full of uncertainty and fear, a realm that has conquered the lives of many and shattered their dreams. Doubt is a state of mind like many other invisible forces of life, it is however a “double standard mindset”, where an individual believes it is possible today but due to changing circumstances the individual firmly believes it impossible the next day. Doubt has become the devil of our age, aborting dreams and visions that can make this world a better place. On the subject of doubt Saint James had this to say, “For let not that man think that he shall receive any thing of the Lord. A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.” Doubt is simply a gate way to scarcity, poverty, lack and greed. It is synonymous with fear, they are a dangerous pair, where there is a doubt fear manifest and fear itself is an expression of doubt!
I want to introduce the reader to a higher life, a better realm to live in; it is a life of faith. Many individuals have defined faith differently and in this article I will define it my way, Faith is: Fear Ain’t In The Head. Faith is the only cure for doubt, it casts out fear and it believes everything is possible. Faith sees visions and dreams coming to pass, it accepts the presence of adverse circumstances but refuses to be intimated and subdued, faith is a conqueror better than nuclear forces, yet so many individuals live in mediocrity simply because they have refused and failed to embrace this powerful force as a companion and an inspirer. According to James Allen, in the nineteenth century, he wrote the following words in As a Man Thinketh, “Circumstances do not make a man, they reveal him”, what are you revealing to the world, a being of faith or fear, do not let circumstances define who you are.
Those who live in doubt never seem to make progress in all the vital aspects of life, they are ever sinking, people of faith have a flow in life, things seem to work for them in perfect order simply because they know who they are, they are more than conquerors, they are victors and not victims in this world, they see themselves as legacy makers with a desire to make this world a better place, they are no cowards when it comes to life.
It is high time we cast off the burden of doubt away from our beautiful lives; let’s tap into the realm of faith, a realm of success, abundance, progress and prosperity, it is a higher life, one which lies beyond doubt. Relocate to a better world, no financial obligations needed just your will, persistence and determination. You deserve better because you are a success, so act in faith everyday. (You may contact Joseph at zvoushomajn@gmail.com)
Joseph’s article appears as the editorial in the September 2010 Global Leadership News, sponsored by The International Institute For Global Leadership, a tuition-free, internet based education program which provides a curriculum in consciousness designed to prepare students to become personally empowered, consciously aware, high-integrity and heart-centered leaders in their communities and the world. The study program is open to participants of any age and from anywhere in the world. For more information go to: http://www.global-leadership.com/
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